So I basically just moved out of my GF's place. :-(
As the story goes, it was me, my GF, her sister, and her sister's BF. I've literally had the final straw tonight. For awhile, I have had absolutely no say in the apartment. Case in point, this December will (well would of) be 2 years we moved into this place. I took $500 out of my bank account to buy a bed for me and my GF, which turned into a bed for us and one for her sister and her BF. I said fine, but I want a say where we get it (I knew a place that sold great beds for dirt cheap. Like a twin size for $100), and that the money was to be paid back because it was basically $500 I couldn't afford but I still did it. Instead of going there, we detoured to a different place and the people that ran the place didn't even know the price of their own merchandise or what they even had in stock or not. I said no, we're not getting the beds from here and returned to my car. I then see 4 men carrying 2 beds and 2 boxspring mattresses to the Uhaul truck the sister's BF drove there. Total price: $480. My last $20 they spent on me for dinner for me and my buddy, even though my GF said her and her sister would pay for dinner. On the reciet, and this is the part I can't make up, the guy that sold the beds to them actually wrote "MISTAKE" because he screwed up his pricing by over charging us, then he under charged us then got the price right on the 3rd try. 2 years later and I have not received even $1 dollar back from it.
Fast forward to today, and after 2 years of not getting listened to, the sister looked at me today and asked about getting a cat. I said no. I am HORRIBLY allergic to cats. The BF called me a liar because we were talking about getting a dog if we got a bigger place. I am allergic to some dogs, but not all breeds (case in point; my parents have a mix Australian Shepherd/Golden Reitriver that I am slightly allergic to, but not as bad as cats). After explaining that I can't be around any cats (even hypoallergenic), I come back from work to find that the sister got a cat. I packed a bag to go back to my parents house (thankfully the dog doesn't go in my old room so I won't have any breathing issues), and when I said I'm leaving, my GF rolled her eyes and shrugged her shoulders. I walked out to hear the sister saying to someone on the phone that I'm "bitching and whining over the cat he didn't want".
I just got off the phone telling my GF that since I pay bills, rent, the gas for the car everyone drives, and for the food that comes into the house (on a tight budget as it is), I deserve a say and that the cat has to go. My GF, even though she herself is also allergic to cats and dogs, refused to say anything other than "It's staying".
And now, with allergy medicine at bedside, I bid you all goodnight. Thank you for putting up with me and this crap.